SPEND TIME WITH ME | MAKE FLUFFY PANCAKES | PERSONAL WEAKNESSES by FRIDAH NGUKU

so guys pancakes are ready look at howhe Emilia look at that yummyHank good people welcome back to freedomfield I just in case in you here hi myname is Frieden cuckoo and this is thebest place for you so subscribe and jointhe family now it’s a Sunday morning andit’s one of the scientists I wake up ina feeling more is I take a little morepositive and I’m like since not all dayshappen like today sometimes we wake upand we of zero motivation like you don’tfeel like doing anything you just feellike sleeping and watching the qualityand sometimes when that watching justbecomes boring so this Sunday I woke upfeeling a little bit more motivated andI thought when you have the motivationguys this is something I want when youhave the motivation that’s when you needto do a launch because it doesn’t happenso today I thought let’s do pancakeswith you guys and have a chitchat nowthis cheat shadow this talk is gonna beme and you have been a conversation meand you trying to look within cuz Irealized that you’re very good atlooking without looking outside us likebefore like this this person is likethis judging other people and all thatand it’s next time encourage anddiscipline and a lot to just be like Ialso have a weakness and I need toconfront it alright so I thought abouttoxic people toxic our friendships toxicrelationships and sometimes you are veryquick to blame other people yet we needto also look withinlet’s make pancakes and have a talk ifyou’re not subscribed kindly hit asubscribe button and join family[Music]alright guys the first thing I’m gonnado is show you my ingredients before wecan start this whole process and I’musing this amount of milk this is 500 mlis it yes I find it a man I’ve alreadypoured it into this junknormally this the Delta use days whenI’m making my mixture for pancake reasonbeing it’s small enough and big enoughit is just enough for meand then this Cutlass here makes it veryeasy to pour my mixture into the pan soI don’t data fight the whole thing sothere’s milk here this 500ml here andit’s warmI definitely love my milk one before Imake my pancakes I think they are morefluffy when the milk is warm yes I’m notsure that’s a reason the second thing issolved normally I use salt and sugar butI just put a pinch of salt a little andthen there’s oil of course we have sugarwe have this week oh I love using mywinkles to make mixed and stirred spoonsthen I put one egg because a fine keyyou can do two eggs by react to eggsquite a lot so I try to avoid eggs asmuch you know my face has issues witheggs then we have self raising flournormally I don’t use like globalfly usea phrase if like for my pancakes so Idon’t use any baking powder and let’sget on to it anything else of myself nonow so we’re gonna do this and we wouldkeep a talking right we’ll keep talkingoff a chitchat of looking within like Imentioned now the first thing is I wannaput my sugarnormally I mix it somewhere differentlike in a different place then I mix buttodayKeeney away yeah and see how things goso two spoons of sugar that’s enoughand my first chit chat talk we’re gonnahave today is like I say like pooch likejust a pinch of salt just just a pinchof salt guys good sea salt little likequite little then normally I add somelittle oil back into my milk also orinto my mixture I don’t know whathappened to this amiko this fresh freshfresh fried guy is dispatched for ourguys every time I fight this thing afterlike two days somehow I’m not able todisconnect this thing from the main onesoff and might change my brand anyone washad this experience with this Cortinaleave something in the comments sectionbelowthen my eggokay so you make sure you stand them alittle bit so they can mix properly nowthe first stock we’re gonna have todayguys let’s talk about judg’d people Ithink we need let me let me start bysaying if you knew me two years ago orthree years ago and you get to know menow you’ll find a very different personI think somehow growing up is a goodthingI was very judgmental by the way andhere’s something I had to just leaveit’ll be like Freda you need tounderstand people you need to get to apoint where you look at him and thisjudging is real by people do things thatdon’t really resonate with your beliefsor your principles or what you believein and then you’re like why do they dothis why are people is like this whenyou IANA fine and I be like you just soquick to judge simply because they areseeming different from you doesn’t makesense these are quarter salesdon’t judge me because I seem differentfrom you like we all you know or seemingbut my sales are different from yours sobecause you’ve done this and for methat’s an extreme according to me that’sto the extreme then I feel like I ambetter than you so I’m always on thebackground charging and and I realizethat people change and people grow andit repeat guys it’s actually okay tojust learn like sometimes we do thingsand this comes from someone who hasreally grown out of that cocoon ofjudging people I got to a point where Irealized that everyone takes time tochange we all have different timelinesof growing up in changing and so youneed to give people a chance to changeand when we are changing by the way whenyou’re changingyou sometimes bucks light you know yougo back to your old ways and thisexample when you’ve been this person whonever believed in God and all of asudden you now believe in Godand you and I now I’m changing my waysand all that it doesn’t mean becauseI’ve decided to change my ways that’s Iwill not get back to that like it willcome a day or a week that you just can’tstay on your lane you just can’t be thisperson and you find yourself sleddingback too much one and we tend to judgepeople by bags who are like I said isthat man see she said see he said hisbonnet kids he said you will never dothis thingwhy is she doing them why is he doingthem I think we just need to stopjudgingyou know let’s look within before youjudge just give people some I don’t knowwhat you call them some benefit of doubtbecause you’re human beings we don’tmess up and I’ve learned to look withinguys I’ve learned to just and lookwithin and be like I am not perfect I’mreally far from it and it’s okay to messarticlesI will also mess up at some point and Iwould expect that people don’t judge meby that so that’s my first talk today myfirst point is we need to be carefulwhen you’re charging people and we needto really be not so judgmental even theBible says don’t judge you know let’slet’s not really jumped behind much soI’ll keep adding flour here and mysecond point is these are priceyfriendships and relationships when welive friendships or when we break upwith our loved ones will be a very quickto judge them a very quick you say ohyou used to do this all she used to dothis end we don’t really take timeto look within and relate I also hitsome toxic mistakes he’ll deploy itsomething weaknesses didn’t leave thatcontributed to this breakup thatcontributed to lead within this personand a friend and I think we need to getto that point where and how you break upwith people after you you’ve lovedsomeone a friendship as handed you needto sit back and ask yourself how did Icontribute to that because I think we’revery fast to judge they are a person orthey used to do this they emotionallydrained me meaning but somehow I believewe all contribute to that whole thingwith somehow contributes to it in a wayor another somehow contribute ends ittakes us quite a lot of time to acceptthat we were part of that we didsomething that was not really good or wedid something that you make them dosomething else as yudenich work this onein the saying the human will help youwho you are and treats you the wayyou’re supposed to be treated then lateron they will treat you how you treatthem and I think we both are people havea appliance both for men and womenpeople treat you how you deserve to betreated then somehow when they realizemy efforts are not matched up to theyare like now I’m gonna treat you the wayyou be treating me some more somecoaches in here you find yourselffalling back to that so my other pointis we need to get to a point where welook within and be like that friendshipended because I also do this as much asother person doing something look wefeel they’ll get you know what you didthat also spoke good so that youproductive before you can get to anotherrelationship or before you can transferit to another friend and end up losingwe’re almost there guysI don’t like it Sophie and I don’t likeit so someone so the consistency whatI’m working on right nowthen we head to the kitchen now my nextpoint is again this is from someone whohas liked some have learnt they had wayas I just said to be like free but youhave this weakness always watching youweak okay like things have to learn in acertain way anyway and all you do is belike this is what I exciting should gothis is how I believe they should runand you don’t have time to listen topeople like it’s all your way it’s in myway or the highway you know and whenyou’re that kind of a person it’s veryhard to people tend to think you’re abully people think you might not reallybe a bully people tend to teach you asno people tend to think you you are thisyou pretend to think you’re notconsidering it you don’t understandbeing I think is true you’re notunderstanding because in this life aslong as you’re living with people youneed to get to a point where you cancompromise you know you can listen topeople and try to understand where theyare coming from sometimes the code willnever said you’ve seen online you’rethis that you’ve seen a six so we mightnot be wrong all of us we’re justlooking at it from a different angle sowe’ve seen different things that makesense so I think we need to get to apoint where we confront our weaknesseswe get to look within it be like I needto learn to listen more and talk lessand try to understand people becausethat way you get one assigned thatreally different is one thing I’velearned in this life is like people aredifferent like we are so different butif like you might look at this andget-and like it and be like I lovemyself butea and someone will look at itand be likehell is wrong with you why are youputtin salt in such a small cameo incertain let with the things sorted sodifferent and unless you understand thatit should be very hard to connect withpeople to be very good to understandpeople but I can look at it in anotherwayassuming we all look at things the sameway life would be boring so let me onthe comment section do sometimes be likewow I should have released them more andtry to understand them because they werenot really wrong they are just seeing itfrom a different perspectivealright so yeah let me finish this mixerthen we catch the kitchen and finish upthe other two a few moments later okayguys so pan easier these if I already soif you want up I have oil here it’s it’soily not fast in order you’re seeingbears and you’re like oh it’s five noit’s the toilet see I just put it thereso that I make it easy to use it thenthese are we placing my pancakes andthis is my mixture it’s not so thick andit’s not so granny and it’s reallyreally smooth and like it’s soconsistent and we’re gonna have theyhave a to chitchat points and you’re notgonna be seeing me because I’ll becooking so or to be seeing more is mypancakesso the fourth points which I thought Ishould mention is they’re people let meput myself in that category because Iwas wise there sometimes it’s us whodon’t want to be corrected sometimes youjust want in it you don’t want anyone tocorrect you you’re wrong but then youare like no you’re not correcting me weare not doing this because you wannasteal your that’s right you are thisthe things so people can’t correct youand when people tend to collect you evenin a good way you don’t take it toopositively yes and I think that you getto a point where we take thingspositively we we get corrected and don’tget mad when people correct you ticketspositively and land and of course youdon’t have to take everything they saidyou didn’t but at least you can you canlearn something from it so I think weneed to get to a point where we learn tolearn from the corrections that peoplemake him how mistakes things that peoplesay let’s learn let’s pick somethingdon’t always think your rights and lookat how beautiful there’s this guy’s anice fluffy face yeah so we need tolearn it it’s something I had to learnthe hard way that it’s people willcorrect you and sometimes it’s okay itdoesn’t mean they hate you it doesn’tmean they don’t the best for youhe’s just correcting it because that’show they think is best you know andsometimes people already thinking isthat I try to do it take they use not sogood ways to correct people and we takeit so personally sometimes we want tocorrect people because we love thembecause you want the best for them buthow it comes out it’s it’s not the bestway and we end up taking that one wasnot a good way to say so you’re correctyou but how they do it sometimes or thebest way and sometimes it could be youyou could be the person who corrects buthow you do it is not the best way allrightyeah I hope you guys can see this howbeautiful this panicking is let’s moveon to the last choicethis one is to burst people were evenmade it’s like you started with someonewith the one that one here you knowsucking their business sales you’resucking their YouTube channel you’restarting whatever it is you’re startingthere’s not enough funding in the whatday team they were all bags and thenthey found out their business is nowdoing Google their channel is not doinggood they grown and all that and thenbecause you put them thereyou tend to not understand that you areonce down here you know like at somepoint in your life you are alsostruggling at some point in your lifeyou also needed helpful people and nowyou forget that you’re not there to helppeople and my point is I have learnt inlife you can go up very high and stillcome down to the ground like fall backthem it is that serious things you canstart down here grow up even in a monthin a week and business variance thenfall back to do does that make sense sowe need to hunt for ourselves even ifyou come from very far and you donateyour heart and their time for yourselfand be there for people in them a nopeand the ones who live down here couldactually grow and join you up there ohyou could fall and they’re the ones whoare up there and they need your help soyeah so if you want these people to getup there any food gets that peopleexisted then you forget that you canfall I have learned that God can put youback to where you are in a day in a weekin seconds like you wake up to the edgeof Bangkok’s you wake up to the endyou’re just trending ontwitterin a bad way you know also as relationto people as you speak badly of peopleand help them in criticize them anegative me be very careful alright guysso I’ll continue Kokila me on thecomment section below I’ll definitelyshow you the results let me hear thecomment section below what are some ofthe things you’re battling with or aresome of the weaknesses or the use ofland and you’re like it’s growing up bya blunt face and then definitely willcorrect it on the comment section belowand yeah let’s do thisantiquing one eternity later as pancakesare ready here we go they’re very veryfluffy you have this very fluffy andvery hot